I
have spent quite some time on the romance forum & as a certified
relationship counselor, I have given a few of you advice. But one thing I've
come to notice is the number of times I have had men writing to me for advice
because their women treat them poorly.
Ladies, if you claim to "love" your man, please act like it. Why must it always be him that has to initiate every call or text message? Why must he always be the one that needs to plan every date?
Would it kill you to send him a cute message that reads, "Hey babe, Just wanted to let you know I'm thinking about you."? Would it kill you to surprise him to a sweet romantic dinner? If you don't have the money to take him out, you can simply cook a delicious meal for him. Make the evening special in your own way.
Once in a while, if you have money, you can stop by the mall and get him a nice shirt or something you think he would like.
A few years ago, I learned the secret to keeping my man happy: Whenever I can, I do sweet things for him. I plan romantic outings, date nights, couple nights (an evening where we gather with all our "couple" friends), and I buy him little gifts whenever I can. Not just on his birthday, but whenever I can. Above all, I gave him the most important thing to a man: RESPECT. In return, I get treated like a QUEEN. My man goes above and beyond to put a smile on my face. Making sure I'm happy slowly became a priority for him. He gets me everything I want on his own will. I've never had to ask for a thing.
I know our African men like to act hard and tough, but deep down inside they just want a woman who will genuinely love them. Not one who will love with words, but a woman who loves with actions.
If you have a man who is not acting right, just start loving him the RIGHT way and watch him change.
So ladies, send your man a cute text message today. Surprise him with a cute and sexy message. He will love it.
This goes to the married women as well.
**Disclaimer: I'm not telling you to spend all your money on this man o. Neither am I asking you to become his sugar mama. Just pamper him once in a while.**
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